So hi! What is your advice for long-distance relationships? It is like the others, with emails daily and calls, and we are both as happy as we can be, but what is your opinion on them? Yay or Nay? Any advice we can get?

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I’ve never done it, by choice I think. For me I would’ve only considered it if I thought there was an end in sight. Like ok just this long until we finish school, or whatever time frame/circumstance. I know people who have had successful long distance ships but they all involve a lot of travel back and forth. Just emails and phone calls only get’s you through a week or 2 and after that you need to personally connect in my opinion. It’s a huge commitment but if both parties are really serious about it then it’s worth a try. good luck! Travel Safe! Thanks! and Please:

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(in response to you answering me in private) right after i found out that he was saying he missed me and stuff, I texted him and he didn't respond so i tried again and he never replied. One of our mutual friends wants to set up a "meeting" so we can talk..would that be a good idea?

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I don’t know if it’s worth the effort if he’s not replying. That’s on him.

MMKAY.. So, there's this guy. He's an okay guy, very.. outspoken, energetic, sometimes a little too horny, but ya know. We've been talking, we're both interested. Him more so than me, I think. I can't tell. However, my ex recently starting talking to me.. like, a lot. I think he might be into me.. again? I don't know what to do. Both seem to make sense, in a weird way. My ex, he's very sweet and smart, and sensitive. This other guy, he's.. different.. ADVICE??

Asked by Anonymous

Well aren’t you popular! I don’t know these guys. I don’t know why you broke up with the ex in the first place. Has that thing changed? If it hasnt’ changed then don’t get back together. Figure out why this time will be different if you’re gonna do it again. Maybe it’s great! Outspoken, energetic, and “too horny” don’t sound super awesome compared to your ex.

I've liked this guy for 3 years & we've just recently started to get closer. He came over to my house the other day & it seemed like we were both flirting& waiting for the other to get up the courage to kiss the other but it never happened. Then after that he didn't talk to me for about 2 weeks and now he's somewhat getting back to normal. I know he probably doesn't like me back (b/c he knew that I had a crush on him 2 yrs ago but I don't know if he knows I still do) What should I do? (Sadie's?)

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Ask him whats up? a little communication can go a long way. Thanks! and Please:

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Hi there. So, there's this girl. This WONDERFUL girl. And she's gay like me. And we're best friends. And I like her romantically. And she doesn't. I'm leaving in june and will probably never see her again. She knows I like her, and I can't move on. Any suggestions?

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Yes, accept it. You have a great future ahead of you. You think you’ll never see her again but maybe you will in 10 years or 20 or ????? Leave it at that and be happy for yourself. Reflect the love for her back on yourself. Use that love to treat yourself right, don’t wallow in misery. Have a good cry when you need to and then keep moving. It’s perfect that you’re moving it’ll be a change of scenery and things will change. When you meet someone new that makes you feel this way it’ll blow your mind and you’ll laugh about these times you’re going through now. It’ll happen if you allow it. Thanks! and Please:

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I was talking to this guy for a couple of months but then one of my "good friends" started sleeping with him and they got together. Well they dated for two weeks then broke up. Four months after that he asked me for a second chance and I said no because I was still heartbroken. I got kinda drunk one night and called him up for a booty call and I've been confused ever since because he texts me every day if I'm okay and if we can move forward. I want to but I don't want to. What should I do?

Asked by Anonymous

Ermmmm ok. So, you want to but you don’t want to. ok. it doesn’t tell me much but if I was in your position, I don’t think I would move forward with someone who I already have doubts about. I think the beginning of a relationship is usually a time that you really trust your gut and if your gut isn’t all the way into the guy then probably leave it at that. Politely tell him your not ready for taking it further and try and let him down easy but firm. Good luck! Thanks! and Please:

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Hi there, at the beginning of this year I made two friends who were best friends with each other and they both started liking me. And I started crushing on one of them. I didn't know how to go about asking one girl out without completely letting down the other. But I eventually did ask her and we're now dating. Unfortunately, the other girl, who was a good friend to both of us tried to still hang out with us but things fell apart... It's a real bummer. How would you have handled it differently?

Asked by Anonymous

That’s a bummer, yeah. I’m not really sure if you could do anything different if there was chemistry between 2 people naturally a 3rd was left out. It’s not uncommon and it sounds like you tried to be cool about it so what can you do? If you were honest and respectful, that’s really what’s most important.

I have a crush on the guy who sits next to me in class. And I really want to talk to him but we haven't really talked before. How would I go about starting a conversation with him in a quiet class environment?

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walk up to his desk, assume he’s like other boys you have ever talked to, and be confident like you are with your friends. make fun of your teacher with him or something. About being in a quiet class environment, lower your voice. Does this still happen? Thanks! and Please:

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What do you do when your with someone and you love them but they are totally dicks sometimes but sweet most of the time?

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Hmmm it really depends to me on how the bad outweighs the good. In my opinion, If by total D you mean verbally abusive, or disrespectful, or dishonest, or manipulative, or vengeful, or violent, or abusive, then I think you should look for a better person starting asap. If you mean that sometimes you both disagree on something and get pissed at each other but eventually you both lose steam and both admit that your wrong and are equally respectful to each other, then that’s just relationships. but that’s just me…. Thanks! and Please:

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I misread that question I just answered about the crush, check the edit…